Just as there aren’t explicit goals in person-centered therapy, Weinraub says the style has core philosophies more than concrete techniques. These include:
Active listening
Person-centered therapists listen actively and without judgment, taking in and reflecting on whatever the client has chosen to share so they feel fully seen and heard. “There’s nothing more powerful in the world,” Weinraub says. “Every human in the world wants that.”
Avoiding giving direction
Non-directiveness is central to the philosophy of person-centered therapy. That means — to the extent possible — the therapist avoids giving suggestions or offering their own judgements, instead reflecting back what the client has said. “I’m not telling them things, I’m not guiding them, I’m not telling them stories from my life,” Weinraub says. “I’m just hearing them and witnessing them.”
Unconditional positive regard
Unconditional positive regard is about accepting and supporting clients no matter what they say or do. Offering this kind of unconditional acceptance helps create a safe place for clients to grow and explore.
Congruence (genuineness)
This tenet of person-centered therapy refers to the idea that therapists should be genuine. “They have to be real,” Weinraub says. “They have to be a human in the room,” rather than putting on an act.
Empathy
Since the client is guiding sessions, the therapist must work to truly understand their point of view and feelings, offering true empathy for their lived experience.